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SITUATIONSHIPS: FINDING CLARITY IN LOVE WITHOUT LABELS | UNCOVER THE TRUTH BENEATH MODERN CONNECTIONS | RECLAIM YOUR EMOTIONAL POWER Tonight | SITUATIONSHIPS: NAVIGATING THE SPACE BETWEEN LOVE AND LABELS By Billeigh Irish, Holistic Advisor | May 30, 2025 In today’s emotionally complex world, the concept of the situationship has quietly risen to the surface of modern relationships. Neither friends with benefits nor committed partners, a situationship exists in a liminal space — undefined, often unspoken, and, for many, emotionally challenging. While it can offer moments of connection without pressure, the spiritual and emotional toll it may take is often overlooked. What Exactly Is a Situationship? A situationship is a romantic or intimate relationship that lacks clear boundaries, commitment, or direction. There’s chemistry, perhaps even consistency, but no solid foundation. These relationships often start organically — texting late at night, spontaneous meetups, and a natural rhythm that feels almost like a relationship, except… it’s not. There are no labels, no promises, and often, no clarity. While some thrive in the freedom, others suffer silently in the uncertainty. The Emotional Reality Beneath the Surface Spiritually and emotionally, situationships challenge our heart’s core need for connection, safety, and truth. At first, the freedom can feel liberating — no obligations, no pressure. But over time, many people begin to crave more: recognition, depth, direction. The very lack of clarity that once felt safe can morph into anxiety, confusion, and self-doubt. A common emotional thread in situationships is yearning — for the other person to make a decision, for clearer communication, or for things to naturally evolve into something deeper. When that yearning is not met, the inner world may respond with spiritual fatigue, decreased self-worth, and emotional unrest. Why Do We Enter Situationships? From a holistic perspective, situationships often mirror our inner dynamics. We may enter one because: We fear rejection but still seek closeness. We’re not fully ready for a committed relationship. We’re repeating emotional patterns from childhood or past relationships. We value temporary connection over loneliness, even if it comes with uncertainty. Sometimes, a situationship is part of our soul’s journey — a way to confront our inner blocks, strengthen self-worth, and learn to communicate needs more clearly. The Spiritual Lesson: Self-Honesty and Boundaries If you find yourself in a situationship, ask: What am I truly seeking here? Is it intimacy, growth, or simply companionship without strings? Once you know what your heart desires, you can make aligned decisions. Situationships aren’t inherently “bad.” They can offer growth, reflection, and temporary joy. The issue arises when you’re staying in a dynamic that no longer matches your emotional needs — out of fear of loss or false hope. How to Protect and Empower Yourself Tune inward: Ask yourself honestly — am I being emotionally nourished here? Communicate clearly: You have every right to ask, “What are we?” Set boundaries: Don’t override your values for temporary connection. Choose alignment over attachment: Let go of what confuses you to make space for what’s meant for you. Reader Reflection Have you ever found yourself in a situationship? What did it teach you about your emotional needs or self-worth? Share your insights in the comments — your experience could empower someone else. Billeigh Irish is a holistic advisor helping individuals find emotional clarity and spiritual alignment in relationships, self-worth, and soul path living. I work exclusively on Purple Garden, offering personalized readings tailored to your specific situation. From understanding someone's feelings and intentions to exploring career prospects or resolving family matters—this is your space to find direction. What I Do I am a Holistic Advisor, not a fortune teller. I focus on the present and what actions can create the best outcome for you. My process is direct and straightforward, with Spirit’s guidance helping to reveal what you need to hear—not simply what you want to hear. This requires a direct question; I do not offer general readings. Together, we can untangle confusion, address challenges, and navigate changes to empower you toward your goals. Would you like insight into a current or past relationship, a potential connection, or a situationship? Curious about someone's feelings or intentions? Need clarity on career dynamics or co-worker challenges? Whatever the concern, I recommend a 20-minute reading to delve deep and provide thorough understanding and options for moving forward. My Approach Through Astronomy and Moon phases, I offer a unique connection to your timeline. By identifying your guiding star and Zodiac constellation, I can outline scenarios and best-case timing using my original Astronomy Timeframe method. I require the first name and full date of birth (or approximate age) of anyone involved in your inquiry to focus on their energy. While Spirit’s guidance is vast, there are limitations; I cannot provide details like the appearance, occupation, or exact location of a future partner. Instead, I explore characteristics, timelines, and how certain paths may unfold. What Spirit chooses to share is always authentic, and my style remains truly unique. As an experienced medium, I do not push to prove messages from loved ones—it is up to them to bring forth genuine communication. Mediumship readings are conducted thoughtfully via telephone, never rushed. Setting Boundaries for Clarity Because I am sentient, I focus on one specific question at a time. This ensures I provide my utmost attention and insight without distraction. I ask for patience if I request you to limit additional questions while addressing your initial inquiry. For clarity post-reading, messaging is available to refine understanding—not to add new questions or extend the session. Respecting these boundaries allows me to serve you effectively while maintaining meaningful connections. Special Rates and Services I offer live video readings, typically priced at $9.99 per minute, with occasional specials at $6.99 and even flash sales at $4.99 per minute. Chat and talk readings are available at $9.99 per minute. Keep an eye out for deals to make the most of your experience. For new clients, I provide Tryouts—a brief overview with one question on one topic. If you’re are a current regular client, feel free to use all your tryouts to explore our connection further. Currently due to health issues I am no longer able to provide live video readings. However I am available on chat and talk. I have discontinued rush 3-minute readings. While they provide only a brief overview, live videos offer better clarity and depth, making them a superior option. A Unique Offering With a Diploma in Psychology, Holistic Counseling, Couple’s and Family Therapy, and more, my expertise spans love, career, family dynamics, and spiritual guidance. My current studies include PTSD and Emotional Freedom Techniques, deepening my ability to navigate complex challenges with you. As an animal empath, my fur companions—Charlie the Psychic Pug and twin puppies Luna and Jimin—bring their energy into every reading, aligning me with Spirit and offering insight into animal communication. If your pet’s behavior concerns you, bring them into your reading (live settings required). Experience the beauty of my studio, filled with light and color. I offer Aura readings, guided meditations, and more—creating an experience that is vibrant, uplifting, and uniquely yours. Let’s uncover the truth, embrace change, and empower you to live your best path forward. Together, we will create clarity and illuminate possibilities. Are you ready? 🌟

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Spiritual medium, Dream analysis, Astrology & Horoscopes, Oracle guidance, Love readings